Before they took your voice, they took your certainty. That was the groundwork. You cannot silence a person who is certain - you have to destabilize them first.
Before they took your voice, they took your certainty. That was the groundwork. You cannot silence a person who is certain - you have to destabilize them first. Make them doubt what they saw.
Make them question what they felt. Make them wonder if their perception is reliable. Once the foundation of self-trust is cracked, the voice goes quiet on its own.
You do not even notice it happening. One day you are a child who says what they see. The next you are an adult who asks permission before having an opinion.
I have sat across from thousands of people in sessions, and this is the wound I encounter most often.