I keep palo santo in every room, it is one of my favorite tools for shifting energy. *(paid link)*
This step is essential and it's the one most people skip. They want to get to the releasing without doing the feeling. But you cannot release what you haven't fully contacted. The Sedona Method veterans know this: the deeper you connect with the feeling, the more completely it releases. Shallow contact produces shallow release. Full contact produces full release. And here's the consciousness dimension: the act of fully connecting with a feeling - without judgment, without resistance, without the mind's commentary - is itself an act of Sakshi Bhava (witnessing). You're not the feeling. You're the awareness that feels the feeling. And in that recognition - subtle, momentary, often below the threshold of conscious thought - the identification loosens. You're no longer fused with the emotion. You're the space in which the emotion appears. And space doesn't need to hold onto anything. **Step 2: Let Go.** After connecting fully, ask yourself - gently, without pressure: "Could I let this go?" The answer doesn't matter. You're not trying to force a release. You're creating an opening. An invitation. A door that the feeling can walk through if it's ready. Then ask: "Would I let this go?" Again - the answer isn't the point. The asking is the point. Each question loosens the grip by one more degree. Then: "When?" And the answer - the only answer that works - is "Now." What happens in the "now" isn't a dramatic exorcism. It's more like exhaling. The contraction relaxes. The density thins. The feeling doesn't disappear - it completes. It moves through the system instead of staying stuck in it. And what's left isn't numbness or emptiness. It's space. Clean, clear, alive space. The space that IS consciousness - unobstructed by the karmic impression that was, until a moment ago, occupying it. ## How This Maps to the Nine Categories The genius of this practice is that it works across all nine categories of karma - because every category ultimately manifests as a felt experience in consciousness: I remember the first time I fully leaned into letting go during a workshop in Denver. My body tightened, my jaw clenched—the nervous system screaming for control. Then, with deliberate breath and shaking, I watched the old, stuck tension melt away like concrete cracking under pressure. That moment wasn’t just relief; it was a crack open, a surrender that rewired my system, no fluff, just raw release.Pema Chodron's When Things Fall Apart is the book I give to anyone going through a dark night. *(paid link)*
**Sanchita Karma** surfaces as vague, deep feelings without clear origin - ancient impressions stirring in the warehouse. Connect and Let Go can address these without needing to identify their source. You don't need to know which lifetime generated the impression. You just need to feel it and release it. **Prarabdha Karma** shows up as the life conditions you can't change - but your emotional RELATIONSHIP to those conditions can be released. You can't change that you were born into a difficult family. You CAN release the contraction you hold around it. **Physical Karma** manifests as bodily sensations - tension, pain, heaviness, numbness, heat, cold. Connect with the sensation directly, without medical diagnosis or physical explanation. Feel it as pure sensation. Ask: could I let this go? The body often releases physical karma with stunning efficiency when the mind stops interfering with diagnosis and narration. **Mental Karma** shows up as repetitive thoughts, beliefs, and cognitive patterns. Instead of arguing with the thought or replacing it with a better one, feel the FEELING underneath the thought. Every repetitive thought is powered by an emotion. Release the emotion, and the thought loses its fuel. **Emotional Karma** - this is the practice's sweet spot. Direct emotional release is what the Sedona Method was designed for, and it's where Connect and Let Go excels. Feel the anger fully. Feel the grief fully. Feel the terror fully. Then let it go. Not once - as many times as it takes. Each round of connect-and-release strips one more layer of the samskara until the impression is exhausted. **Energetic Karma** manifests as felt energetic distortions - heaviness in the field, leaking sensation, compression, distortion. These can be felt directly and released directly, the same way you'd release an emotion. The energy body responds to the same invitation: could I let this go? **Relational Karma** surfaces as emotional charges around specific people - resentment, attachment, fear, longing. Bring the person to mind. Feel whatever arises. Connect fully. Release. Repeat until the charge is neutral - until you can think of the person without contraction. That neutrality isn't indifference. It's freedom. **Ancestral Karma** shows up as feelings that are "too big" for your personal history - grief wider than your lifetime, rage that belongs to generations, a heaviness that was never yours. Connect with it anyway. Release it anyway. You're not just clearing for yourself - you're clearing for the lineage.Nisargadatta Maharaj's I Am That is one of the most direct and powerful pointers to truth ever recorded. *(paid link)*
## The Vedantic Depth of Releasing Here's what most Sedona Method practitioners don't realize - because the method is typically taught as self-help rather than spiritual practice: When you release a feeling, you're doing the same thing that self-inquiry does - from a different angle. Self-inquiry asks: "Who am I?" and strips away identification with thoughts, emotions, and sensations by tracing the "I" back to its source. The Sedona Method asks: "Could I let this go?" and strips away identification with feelings by creating space between awareness and its content. Both practices achieve the same result: the dissolution of the false self's grip on consciousness. Both reveal the same truth: you are not the content of experience - you are the space in which experience arises. Self-inquiry approaches this through the intellect (Vijnanamaya Kosha). The Sedona Method approaches it through the emotional and energetic bodies (Manomaya and Pranamaya Koshas). The most powerful practice combines both - and that combination is what I offer in my retreats, my readings, and the framework of The Shankara Oracle. When you pull a Release card from the Shankara Oracle, you're being invited into this exact territory: what are you holding that needs to be felt and freed? What contraction is currently occupying the space that consciousness needs in order to shine unobstructed? The card identifies the theme. Connect and Let Go provides the method. And the result is the same thing every spiritual tradition is pointing toward: more space, more freedom, more of what you actually are. ## Why This Practice Is Powerful I’ve sat with thousands of people in my readings, seen their walls build and crumble, felt their stories imprint on my own nervous system. Following Amma for over two decades taught me one thing crystal clear: love isn’t some airy fairy concept, it’s a muscle you build through presence and hard letting go. I’ve walked through my own dark nights, ego deaths that shredded false identities until only the real grit remained—no light show, just survival, breath, and the fierce decision to drop the weight.The Bhagavad Gita is not just a scripture ~ it is a manual for living with courage and clarity. *(paid link)* Look, I've read tons of spiritual texts over the years, and most of them feel like they were written for monks or people who've already figured their shit out. But the Gita? It's different. It meets you exactly where you are ~ in the middle of your own battlefield, facing impossible choices and wondering what the hell you're supposed to do next. Krishna doesn't give Arjuna pretty platitudes about peace and love. He gives him a battle plan for consciousness itself. Think about that. Here's a text that acknowledges you're going to face moments where everything feels fucked up and your mind is spinning with anxiety and doubt. Instead of telling you to meditate it away, Krishna says: "Yeah, this is hard. Now here's how you move through it without losing your center." The Gita doesn't pretend life is easy or that awakening means floating on clouds of bliss. It's a warrior's guide to staying conscious when the pressure is on and the stakes are real. That's why it still hits so hard after thousands of years.
Most spiritual practices add something: a mantra, a visualization, a belief, a philosophy, a technique. The Sedona Method - and by extension, Connect and Let Go - subtracts. It removes what's in the way. It doesn't build a new spiritual identity. It dissolves the karmic impressions that BUILT every identity you've ever had. Lester Levenson said it best: "All happiness comes from the same place - the removal of the non-Self. Every time you let go of a want or a feeling, you uncover more of your Self, which is unlimited joy." That's Advaita Vedanta in the language of a guy from New Jersey who never studied Sanskrit. And it's real. I've experienced it thousands of times - in my own practice and in witnessing others release karmic material that had imprisoned them for decades. You don't need to meditate for thirty years to taste freedom. You can taste it right now - by feeling what you're feeling, fully, and then gently asking: could I let this go? Try it. Right now. Whatever you're carrying - the tension in your shoulders, the worry about tomorrow, the old ache of something never resolved - feel it completely. Welcome it. And then ask. The space that opens is YOU. The real you. The you that was always here, beneath the karmic noise, waiting for a moment of silence in which to shine. - Paul Wagner (Krishna Kalesh) | PaulWagner.com | TheShankaraExperience.com