Sever the Ties That Bind

A spiritual guide to cord-cutting for emotional and energetic release.

Quick Answer

A cord-cutting ritual is a powerful way to release energetic attachments to people, places, or situations that are draining you. Paul Wagner, a clairvoyant with over 30 years of experience and a devotee of Amma, has guided thousands in this practice of reclaiming their energy. He teaches that cord-cutting is an act of self-love, allowing you to move forward with freedom and clarity.

Published June 22, 2026

Understanding Energetic Cords

We form energetic cords with everyone we interact with. These cords are invisible threads of energy that connect us. Healthy cords are based on love and mutual respect. Unhealthy cords, however, can be draining and keep us stuck in negative patterns. A cord-cutting ritual is a way to sever these unhealthy attachments.

Preparing for Your Cord-Cutting Ritual

Find a quiet space where you won’t be disturbed. You will need two candles to represent yourself and the person or situation you are cutting cords with. You will also need a piece of string or cord to connect the candles. Before you begin, take some time to journal about the relationship and why you are ready to release it.

The Cord-Cutting Ceremony

Place the candles a few inches apart and tie the string around them. Light both candles. As you watch the flames, visualize the unhealthy energetic cord between you. State your intention to release this attachment with love and forgiveness. You can say something like, ‘I release this cord with love and gratitude for the lessons learned. I reclaim my energy and my power.’ Then, safely cut the string with scissors or allow the flame to burn through it.

After the Ritual

Once the cord is severed, take some time for self-care. You may feel a range of emotions, from sadness to relief. This is normal. Take a salt bath, go for a walk in nature, or do something that nourishes your soul. It’s important to be gentle with yourself as you integrate this energetic shift.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does cord-cutting mean I have to end the relationship?

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Not necessarily. Cord-cutting is about releasing the unhealthy energetic attachment, not necessarily the person. It can actually improve a relationship by clearing away the negative dynamics. However, in some cases, it may give you the clarity and strength to end a relationship that is no longer serving you.

Can I do a cord-cutting ritual for a past event or a place?

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Yes, you can cut cords with anything that you feel an unhealthy attachment to, including past events, places, or even limiting beliefs. The process is the same. The goal is to reclaim your energy and release what is holding you back.

How will I feel after a cord-cutting ritual?

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You may feel lighter, more peaceful, and have a greater sense of clarity. It’s also possible to feel tired or emotional as your energy field adjusts. Be sure to drink plenty of water and get extra rest. The effects can be subtle at first, but over time you will notice a significant shift in your energy and well-being.

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