How do you move between floors? There are two ways: the elevator and the stairs. The elevator is grace. It's the spontaneous, unearned moment of awakening. A sudden illness, a devastating loss, a chance encounter with a true teacher-these are the moments when the universe hits the 'up' button for you. You find yourself on a higher floor without having consciously climbed. These moments are gifts, but they are not the whole journey. The stairs are the path of practice. the daily, grinding, unglamorous work of self-inquiry, of meditation, of service, of facing your own shadow. What we're looking at is the path I have walked for 35 years with my teacher, Amma. It is not sexy. Think about that for a second.It is not fast. But it is real. The stairs build muscle. They integrate the awakenings. The elevator gives you the view; the stairs give you the strength to live there. Many people have real elevator experiences, but without the discipline of the stairs, they inevitably find themselves back in the basement. You might also find insight in Spiritual Friendship: The Gift of Sacred Companionship.
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On every floor, there are janitors and architects. The janitors are the ones who are simply maintaining the status quo of that level of consciousness. They are polishing the furniture of their current reality, not questioning its structure. The architects are the ones who are actively engaged in building the next floor. They are the seekers, the questioners, the ones who are not content with their current level of awareness. When I sit with clients, my first job is to determine if they are a janitor or an architect. Is this person here to feel better, or to get better? Do they want me to help them rearrange the furniture on their floor, or do they want the blueprints for the next one? The path to the penthouse is only for the architects. It is for those who are willing to take a sledgehammer to the ceiling of their own limitations and build something new, something higher, something more free. Explore more in our consciousness guide.
What is it like on Floor 108? It is not a state of perpetual bliss or a detachment from the world. That is a spiritual fantasy. The penthouse is the place of radical engagement. It is the ability to be fully present with the suffering of the world without being consumed by it. It is the capacity to see the perfection in the imperfection. Hard truth.From the penthouse, you don't see a world of broken people. You see a world of gods and goddesses in disguise, playing out their karmic dramas. You see the 108-story building in its entirety, and you feel a deep compassion for every soul on every floor. You are no longer trying to get anywhere, because you realize you are everywhere. You are the basement, you are the penthouse, and you are the entire building. sovereignty. It is not an escape from the human experience, but a total embrace of it, in all its messy, beautiful, and divine complexity. Paul explores this deeply in The Electric Rose.
Most people think the journey up the 108 floors is like taking an elevator. You push a button, do your affirmations, and hope for the best. But that's not how it works. The elevator is grace. It's the unexpected moment of clarity, the sudden healing, the spontaneous dissolution of a lifelong pattern. It happens, but you can't control it. The rest of the time, you're taking the stairs. The stairs are the daily practice, the hard conversations, the moments you choose to feel the pain instead of numbing it. The stairs are the work. I've had moments of grace that have catapulted me up ten floors in an instant. But I've also spent years grinding it out on a single step, facing the same pattern over and over again until I finally learned the lesson. You need both the elevator and the stairs. You need to be open to grace, and you need to be willing to do the work. One without the other leads to spiritual stagnation. If this connects, consider an deep healing session.